Lovleen Kaloty's Story:

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If you've ever met me, you'll know one thing. I love talking. I always talk about my own stories, and then people tell me theirs. Every so often, I'd forget to listen to the stories, and only hear them. See, listening involves reflection. You allow the other person to open their mind, and you reflect with them. Most importantly, you appreciate what they've shared with you, because it is a piece of their soul. You value their opinions, and encourage them to follow their dreams. Too many of us only wait for our turn to speak. Not enough of us know what to say back. In fact, the best thing would be if we all smiled at each other when we have nothing to say at all. 

 

Throughout my journey, I've created my own labels for every person who has touched my life. Labels such as, lover, fam, soul sister, healer, guide, wise, joker, hustler, teacher, coach, fairy godmother, and many more. I created these labels to erase the real labels the world gives us: the bitch, fuck boy, crazy, whore, creep, loser, desperate, addict, depressed, useless, and so on. I hope following along may help us all realize we fight the same battle together. At one point in our lives, we have experienced the same feelings, and the same loss of self. It is our human nature to crave connections, and sympathize with those who are hurting. We all want to be wanted, but aren't sure of what we need. My experiences have taught me to empathize, and strive to respond with love. Change starts within us; it needs to begin on a personal level before we can reach social transformative change. 

 

This is my journey of how I overcame my struggle against mental health, and will continue to do so every moment to come. Follow my story, so you can have the courage to continue, and share yours.